The Holiday Season is well underway and a New Year is about to burst on the scene.
So let me share an insight that will completely and absolutely change your life. If you ponder it and integrate the learning from it into your life, it will be utterly transformed and for the better.
What is this secret?
It is simple. You don’t really want what you think you do.
Pause for a moment and let this seep in. It will seem like balderdash. Bring it up in your gemutlich holiday gatherings, and people will look askance at you and wonder if, finally, you have really flipped your lid.
Let’s delve deeper.
You are an entrepreneur and want to grow your company to a billion dollars in revenue. And you are convinced that this is what you want.
What you want is the feeling you have when you are CEO of a billion dollar company.
Let’s go deeper.
What you want is the feeling you think you will have when you are CEO of a billion dollar company.
Right now, you have the illusion that the only way you will get that feeling is by actually running a billion dollar company. So, you make every effort to grow your fledgling enterprise to that level and struggle and strive and work ungodly hours.
So it is with everything that you want.
You want a drop-dead gorgeous partner?
You want the feeling you will have when you have such a consort.
More precisely, you want the feeling you think you will have when you find such a person.
Needless to say, events do not work out the way you envisage. Check out the divorce rates among those who did score with a drop-dead gorgeous mate.
Go back down memory lane in your life. Can you recall anything that you desperately wanted at some time? A bicycle? A video game? A romantic partner?
You knew that your life would not be complete without what you wanted.
Today, you laugh. You cannot understand why you were so infatuated with something so intrinsically paltry.
You have outgrown your need for that thing you wanted so fervently.
Right now, there is something that you want feverishly and you don’t have it and it is causing emotional havoc in your life.
Would you rather get what you want, or would you rather outgrow your need for it?
Think about it.
I will provide you with many roborants to help you deal with the pain of ambition and wanting in the coming year.
And here is the beauty – when you stop desperately wanting something, it becomes a whole lot easier to manifest this in your life.
If this strikes a chord in you and you want to go deeper, you may wish to explore personal coaching with me. You can apply here.
I wish you a terrific 2023 in every way.
P.S. Keep warm in these brumal days!
Happy New Year!